It is all good until somebody spots you on Bumble and assumes you are cheating in your partner.

It is all good until somebody spots you on Bumble and assumes you are cheating in your partner.

When Individuals Are Poly-Negative

“i actually do get, specially guys, whom approach me personally to cheat on the wives, since they have presumption about my intimate accessibility. They assume that because I’m polyamorous that I is enthusiastic about cheating. The presumption is hard and thing. ” —Heath

“Usually it is things such as, ‘Isn’t your man concerned with the conditions you’ve been catching on these internet dating sites? ’ Sometimes it is slut-shaming: calling me personally a ‘slut, ’ a ‘whore’—especially in the event that thing that is first of my electronic lips is the fact that I’m poly. ” —Stephanie

“I continued a night out together with a lady who was simply apparently pretty interested once we talked on Tinder. We had that I happened to be poly in my own profile. She seemed open-minded to it, then again once I actually came across her for dinner, more or less the date that is entire her challenging the idea of poly, challenging every good reason why i might be poly… My moms and dads are divorced, which could have show up at some time. She stated something similar to, ‘Well, possibly I’ve simply had a excellent instance because my moms and dads are incredibly in love, but i actually do think it is feasible to simply love one individual for your whole life. ’ I became if I would be interested in going out on a date sometime like it has nothing to do with that at all, how I was brought up, my parents’ relationship… Recently, a girl asked. We said, well, just in case you’re maybe not okay with this specific, i recently would like you to keep yourself updated that i’m polyamorous. 繼續閱讀 「It is all good until somebody spots you on Bumble and assumes you are cheating in your partner.」